What a beautiful question that leads us to put a laser pointer on our core values. We all answered on the spot and promised to dig deeper in time.
Our answers –
DJ – If we do it. If we conquer our fears and anxieties & go for it.
Martha – If I get out of my own way & truly experience it.
Addie – If I get to pet a kangaroo.
Kate – If we have fun and like the new places we visit.
As I reflect on our answers, I see how far we’ve leaned into this journey already. A few years ago, I feel certain I would have given you a ten-point outline with clearly articulate SMART goals. Probably a document that looked more like a business plan than a life dream. Now, I’m dishing out hippie answers. AND…I mean it.
My biggest challenge has always been to find rest in simply being – being present, being myself, being flexible.
I know I’m in for a roller coaster. I like excel spreadsheets, routines, food labels I recognize and tap water I can drink. I’m very fond of dishwashers, washing machines, ice makers, and central air. But, that ain’t really what we’re headed towards, y’all! I’m nervous about the discomforts and inconveniences ahead & yet, I know in my soul those experiences will be my greatest teachers. I’ll never learn flexibility in comfort or authenticity surrounded by ease.
We definitely want to see and experience all the things. We still have excel spreadsheets & buckets list. But our true drive isn’t to see every continent (although, I’m all for it). The driving force is to simply grow through this experience. So, it will be a success if we come back calmer, kinder, braver, more educated, more empathic, more accepting, and more authentic humans.
Bonus points for animal encounters!
6 Comments
Charlotte
Sounds like it has been successful already. Wonderful experiences as a family.❤️ God bless.
Martha
Thanks, Charlotte
Callie
I’m certain you will!
Martha
You see my heart, Callie! Thanks for the love
Deidre
Girl, I want to put this line on a shirt: “I’ll never learn flexibility in comfort or authenticity surrounded by ease.”
Your words and wisdom are profound, and your adventurous soul on this journey is admired. Keep on with the hippie answers, cause one day you’ll be back in Missi-hippie, and I’ll get to hug your authentic self again! <3
Martha
Ha. Wisdom is debatable…intention setting for now. Your words lift me up and encourage me to keep practicing. Thank you